After reading this, my girl friends on the ‘wrong’ wide of 30 might not want to ever talk to me again, but then again they might just love me more. Let’s see…
So you are still unhappily single? Twenty boyfriends later since 16 when you started dating (I’m not counting the flings and the one-night stands), your heart might have an uncanny ability to pick up asshole signals, maybe you’ve been very unlucky in meeting guys who were still playing the field; you see, some guys are just not ready to receive an awesome woman. Here is the type of those guys:
· A guy who’s just bought his first car – all the years of forced double-dates just coz he needed a lift.
· A guy who’s just hit the big time – if he’d struggled with women attention in the past, chances are he’s a bit bitter towards women for all paying him attention only now that he has buying power or in the spotlight, so he goes on a rampage making up for lost time when he was just a nerd women found boring.
· Some guys, as charming as they are, are also irredeemably arrogant, he’d always think there must be someone out there more ‘worthy’ of him than you. No matter how hard you try, you’ll never be enough.
The problem is, some sisters love thinking they are Chuck Norris, ‘I’m gonna tame him’, they assume confidently. Fact is, when he ain’t mentally ready, even Oprah wouldn’t be enough. So stop wasting your time and move the fcuk on. You are over 30 for crying out loud yet you are still making mistakes you should have made at 18!
And please try and be R.E.A.L.I.S.T.I.C.
One thing guys much better than women is that – niggas are realistic. That’s why you see a supposedly hot guy settling down with a supposedly average-looking woman, he looked at the heart and the mind more than anywhere else and concluded she’s sensible enough to go home to everyday and raise children with.
Women, on the other hand, nc nc nc, not all of you will get DJ S’bu or Robert Marawa, you’ll also have to look at Popeye and Spinach and the likes. And whomever you target, always remember that once you get closer to them there’s always gonna be something smelly, maybe he’d have a really small ‘member’, maybe he has children from previous relationships, maybe he thinks he’s so hot you should lick his shoes, maybe he has a chronic illness etc. You’ll never find any man without flaws. Ever. At 33 you should know that by now.
And it’s not like in the movies, there’ll be days when romance is really low in intensity. You’ll have to put up with ghetto or rural family members, you’ll tolerate soccer matches on TV when you’d rather be watching ‘Why Did I Get Married Too?’ for the hundredth time! Yeah, the fairytale is not forever. Get over yourself.
You are also far from being perfect too hey, at 33 you have a lot of buggage and I’m not even talking about children, you’ve had guys sweep you off your feet and leave you, you’ve been hurt, you’ve been rejected, some of your exes are married, part of your heart is ‘irreparably’ damaged, your mileage is high, stuff in your body is sagging etc. so there is quite a lot to contend and deal with as far as you are concerned, you are heading for the big FOUR ZERO, so relax a bit.
Remember, we are all just ordinary people. And of course, the clock is ticking.
Love and let love.
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